The Detective Agency takes on cases involving marital infidelity if you have doubts about your partner. We carry out premarital screening by analyzing the profile of the requested person in the present as well as in the past. The phenomenon of marital infidelity or infidelity between partners has always existed. In recent years there has been a steadily increasing trend. Our office can undertake the clarification of such cases.
How to discover Marital Disloyalty?
There are several ways in which the person concerned can disclose the infidelity. By way of example, we will list some of the actions that people usually take to disclose infidelity.
- Physical surveillance of a spouse. This way we have direct contact with the target, there is photographic and video footage of anything that looks interesting and noteworthy.
- Gps tracking. In this way we have access to the location of the scumbag, thus understaning whether it is in the place where the husband – wife has indicated that it will be or has indicated a false location.
- Mobile monitoring with a program (see details here)
- Audio recorders, very small in size, which are placed in covertly in order to listen to the location of the person of interest or the telephone conversations they are having.
- Hidden cameras. They are placed inside objects in order to monitor the movements of the person during his/her absence from home or office, etc.
Reasons for men’s marital disloyalty
- Insecurity and reassurance:
He may feel that he is old enough, that he is not handsome, that he is not smart, etc. A significant number of male infidelity is related to midlife crisis. To support his ego, he seeks validation from other women by showing interest in them. By reciprocating the flirtation he feels that he is accepted and desirable still.
In these cases his primary concern may be his own self. For this reason, he may lie and keep secrets without remorse or regret as long as he gets what he wants. It is likely that he never intended to be monogamous. He sees monogamy as a sacrifice he made for the sake of his relationship. Soon he sees monogamy as something to be avoided and bypassed.
Several men do not understand that these actions will inevitably have consequences, such as hurting their partner emotionally or breaking up their marriage. Many view monogamy as a choice, one taken and shared and the other not, depending on the circumstances. A reunion with past companions that starts with a drink, a new acquaintance is enough to put men who lack maturity of thought in the dilemma of committing marital infidelity. He may never have intended to cheat until then until suddenly the opportunity was presented to him. Then, without even thinking about what infidelity might cause in his relationship, he did it.
- Childhood abuse:
Neglect, emotional abuse, physical abuse or even sexual abuse. In some cases, the trauma has created attachment and intimacy issues making him unable or unwilling to commit to a single person.
He may cheat in order to get revenge. There is a sense of anger towards his partner and he wants to hurt her. In these cases the man wants the infidelity to be noticed and known. He does not go into the process of lying or keeping secrets about marital infidelity. The original purpose was for his partner to find out.
- Alcohol and drugs:
Substances such as alcohol and drugs interfere with the decision-making process, resulting in regrets about sexual decisions and infidelity to his partner.
Reasons for marital disloyalty of women
- Dissatisfaction from the relationship:
This is considered one of the main causes of infidelity. The feeling that our partner is no longer interested in us. Lack of satisfaction in the relationship can cause someone to seek that satisfaction elsewhere or even use the act of infidelity, either consciously or unconsciously, as a tool to end the relationship.
- Low self-esteem:
When a woman has low self-esteem, she may be driven to look to outside sources for the attention and validation that her husband is unable to provide. Several times this phenomenon begins with questions to oneself such as “Why should anyone find me beautiful or attractive?” Then, when a man begins to give the necessary attention to her face, she feels beautiful and special.
- Anger or punishment – revenge
Several women enter relationships with an idealized image of the man. But when he falls short of expectations and cannot meet her every need and desire, a chasm is created in the relationship that provides the impetus to walk away.
The woman who cheats may have a partner who works long hours, leaving her alone all day at home or with the children if there are any. Loneliness, a sense of isolation and distance is likely to lead to marital infidelity. There is a feeling of loneliness and then one begins to fill unmet needs for companionship.
- Mid-life crisis
Midlife crisis and change in appearance due to tim generally affects people 35 to 60 years of age. Major life events, such as the loss of a parent or a birth milestone, are likely to start a midlife crisis in a woman.
Depression and infidelity often go together. The illicit affair is exciting, to the point where the brain begins to produce dopamine and serotonin. The same chemicals are produced when we take antidepressant drugs. In other words, a woman who commits marital infidelity heals herself through the act, even if she does not realize the real reason behind her pleasure.
- Alcohol and drugs:
Alcohol and drug use affect her decision making, causing her to regret her sexual decisions and infidelity.
Often in cases involving Marital Disloyalty the assistance and advice of an experienced lawyer is necessary for the smooth outcome of the case.
The detective agency Nikos Pelekasis and Associates is able to answer any of your questions by solving the case you are concerned about. Every personal investigation is conducted with absolute discretion and confidentiality, safeguarding your personal information as well as its outcome.
Our more than 30 years of experience in the field of private and corporate investigations have made us one of the most recognized private investigation firms in Athens.
Our many years of activity in the field of private investigation has resulted in the acquisition of extremely significant experience and offers us recognition from our clients as well as respect from our colleagues and absolute trust from our partners.
The Nikos Pelekasis Private Investigations Agency is licensed by the Ministry of Civil Protection. We work to protect the interests of citizens. You can contact us for any of your personal cases. We undertake private investigations such as: premarital investigations , extramarital investigations, child custody, theft, fraud. In addition we undertake data recovery from devices, online checks for fake-fake facebook profiles, threats, internet scams and extortion. A large percentage hide behind a computer to take out their aggression, immorality , adventurism and reap either mental or financial benefits.
Detective Pelekasis Nikos and Associates
Private Investigations Bureau
39 Stadiou Street, Athens, 2103616406
8 Dragatsis, Piraeus, 2104131298